Loss of Libido Messing With Your Head?

What Drives Your Libido?

What Drives Your Libido?

Female loss of libido has long been a mystery. Is the solution all in your head? Drug makers sure hope so.Is sex–or lack thereof–all in your head?

The German maker, Boehringer Ingelheim GmbH, sure hopes so.  They’re working on a drug (flibanserin) that blunts female inhibition. In comparison, Pfizer’s drug, Viagra, works by targeting blood flow to the penis.

If they succeed, they will score big time: the U.S. market for medicines to rekindle female libido is estimated at more than $2 billion a year.

If flibanserin makes it to market (remains to be seen), it will be the first success after a series of failures from drug makers that include Procter & Gamble Co. and Pfizer. In fact, Pfizer abandoned efforts to adapt its little blue pill into a little pink pill in 2004; they closed sex-health research at the end of last year.

Women sure are tough to understand.

If you’re a man.

And here’s why. Men are digital—the penis is either up or down, on or off, a one or a zero, big or small (joke, that last bit). Women are analog—everything counts and I mean everything, including, how much red wine you had at dinner; whom you have to phone tomorrow; where your soul was 19 lifetime’s ago; what that weird psychic said or worse didn’t say; which shoes to get, the purple or the snakeskin?; why your girlfriend made that comment about your new jeans looking ‘comfy’; if he called you when he said he would and what was with that rushed tone of his?; why he made that comment about you liking walnuts so much; and how he came dangerously close to running over your cat that night he pulled out in such a hurry.

You get the picture.

You’re a woman.

Boehringer is avoiding potentially offensive words such as frigidity and refers to the problem its pill addresses by its clinical name, hypoactive sexual desire disorder, or HSDD. After all, every pill needs a disease, right?

I say, go ahead and launch your drug for HSDD.  But be prepared for the worse. The last thing women need is another thing that just fucks with their head.

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The libido is no less complicated for men than it is for women. Before we get to the digital ‘point’ of “on or off” we also go through all the psychological stuff that women go through: “Does she think I’m a bit fat ?, should we discuss contraception ?, was her last lover better than me ?” etc etc – you get the picture.

Basically, the human sex drive exists in the mind, and not in our body. Every man will be able to recall a time when he got an erection at the “wrong time”. This could be in the shower at school, during a business presentation or on the subway etc. What is happening when we get to ‘on’ ? It’s far more complex than the mere presentation of opportunity. It’s the stimulation of our personal ‘erotic mold’, which is a highly complicated frameowrk of experience, memories, fantasies, and temperamental state.

Viagra does the biological bit, but not the psychological bit. Many guys report that when using viagra they are hard, but not turned on. They have a horn, but do not feel ‘the horn’.

Libido, and sexual desire, requires a journey into your self concept. Freud tells us that it is the core of self, the true inner knowledge. If you really want to be turned on by others you’ve got to get turned onto your self first !

A man can turn a woman on by joining her journey on the trip to self knowledge, not just by taking a pill.

Another great post from Pam, thanks – you really get us thinking !

Love that line about turning yourself on first before you get turned out by others. Brilliant insight. One day we’ll get–I mean really get–there really is no division. The body is the mind. Thanks for your great comment, Phil.

I think it’s great that a drug company is looking at ANYTHING that makes sex better for women.

Now if only someone would work on contraception that MEN can take, I’ll be reeeeeeally happy.

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